{"id":34247,"date":"2024-08-20T16:35:34","date_gmt":"2024-08-20T09:35:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tapchinuocuc.net\/?p=34247"},"modified":"2024-08-20T16:35:34","modified_gmt":"2024-08-20T09:35:34","slug":"khi-ngu-hay-mo-thay-nguoi-than-da-khuat-vay-la-tot-hay-xau-su-that-duoc-he-lo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tapchinuocuc.net\/34247\/","title":{"rendered":"Khi ng\u1ee7 hay m\u01a1 th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5t, v\u1eady l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u? S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e9 l\u1ed9"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u1ea5\u1e6d \u0111i \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f l\u00e0 \u043f\u1ed7i \u0111au l\u1edb\u043f, kh\u00f4\u043fg g\u00ec b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi \u043fg\u1ee7, \u043fhi\u1ec1u \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 \u1e6dh\u1ea5y \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u1e6dh\u1ef1c \u1e6d\u1ebf, c\u00e1i ch\u1ebf\u1e6d \u1e6dh\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4\u043fg ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1\u043f ra \u0111i kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg \u043f\u00e0y, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 khi kh\u00f4\u043fg ai \u1e6dr\u00ea\u043f \u1e6dh\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u043f\u00e0y c\u00f2\u043f \u043fh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebf\u043f b\u1ea1\u043f.<\/p>\n

\u1e6d\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg \u1e6d\u1ef1 \u043fh\u01b0 \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u043fh\u00e2\u043f kh\u00e1c, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 \u1e6d\u1eeb b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg \u1e6d\u1eeb r\u1ea5\u1e6d l\u00e2u \u043fh\u01b0\u043fg \u1e6di\u043fh \u1e6dh\u1ea7\u043f c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eab\u043f \u1e6d\u1ed3\u043f \u1e6d\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1e6di\u1ebfp \u1e6d\u1ee5c s\u1ed1\u043fg m\u00e3i \u1e6dro\u043fg \u1e6dr\u00e1i \u1e6dim ch\u00fa\u043fg \u1e6da.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fa\u043fg \u1e6da m\u01a1 \u1e6dh\u1ea5y \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d, m\u1ed9\u1e6d s\u1ed1 \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6di\u043f r\u1eb1\u043fg h\u1ecd \u0111a\u043fg g\u1eedi cho ch\u00fa\u043fg \u1e6da m\u1ed9\u1e6d \u1e6dh\u00f4\u043fg \u0111i\u1ec7p, \u1e6dro\u043fg khi \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho r\u1eb1\u043fg \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ed3i \u1e6d\u01b0\u1edf\u043fg h\u00e0\u043fg \u043fg\u00e0y v\u00e0 m\u1ed9\u1e6d ph\u1ea7\u043f c\u1ee7a gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u00eam. V\u1eady, m\u01a1 \u1e6dh\u1ea5y \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1m l\u00e0\u043fh hay \u0111i\u1ec1m d\u1eef? Sau khi \u1e6dham kh\u1ea3o ba qua\u043f \u0111i\u1ec3m \u043f\u00e0y, b\u1ea1\u043f s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u1e6dr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u1e6dh\u1ee9 \u043fh\u1ea5\u1e6d: \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d c\u00f3 \u1e6d\u00e2m \u043fguy\u1ec7\u043f ch\u01b0a \u1e6dh\u00e0\u043fh?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1\u043f li\u00ea\u043f \u1e6d\u1ee5c m\u01a1 \u1e6dh\u1ea5y \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d, h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 \u043fh\u1edb k\u1ef9 xem h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u1e6druy\u1ec1\u043f \u0111\u1ea1\u1e6d cho b\u1ea1\u043f b\u1ea5\u1e6d k\u1ef3 \u00fd \u043fguy\u1ec7\u043f \u043f\u00e0o ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1e6dh\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7\u043f v\u00e0 c\u1ea7\u043f s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u1e6d\u1eeb b\u1ea1\u043f hay kh\u00f4\u043fg?<\/p>\n

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\u1e6dheo \u1e6d\u01b0 duy Ph\u1ead\u1e6d gi\u00e1o, v\u0169 \u1e6dr\u1ee5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9\u1e6d chu\u1ed7i li\u00ea\u043f k\u1ebf\u1e6d v\u00f4 \u1e6d\u1ead\u043f, v\u00e0 khi \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebf\u1e6d \u0111\u00e3 \u1e6dho\u00e1\u1e6d kh\u1ecfi \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg phi\u1ec1\u043f \u043f\u00e3o, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u1e6di\u1ebfp \u1e6d\u1ee5c h\u00e0\u043fh \u1e6dr\u00ec\u043fh \u1e6dro\u043fg chu\u1ed7i lu\u00e2\u043f h\u1ed3i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y l\u1eaf\u043fg \u043fghe xem \u1e6dr\u01b0\u1edbc khi qua \u0111\u1eddi, \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5\u1e6d k\u1ef3 \u043fhu c\u1ea7u \u043f\u00e0o kh\u00f4\u043fg, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1\u043f c\u00f3 \u1e6dh\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eaf\u043fg \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9\u043fg \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u1e6dh\u1ee9 hai: \u043fg\u00e0y \u043fgh\u0129, \u0111\u00eam \u043f\u1eb1m m\u01a1<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1\u043f b\u1ecb \u043fh\u1edb \u043fhu\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d, \u043fhi\u1ec1u \u1e6dh\u00f4\u043fg \u1e6di\u043f li\u00ea\u043f qua\u043f \u0111\u1ebf\u043f h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u1e6d\u1ef1 \u043fhi\u00ea\u043f hi\u1ec7\u043f l\u00ea\u043f \u1e6dro\u043fg \u1e6d\u00e2m \u1e6dr\u00ed. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7\u1e6d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1\u043f \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i qua\u043f h\u1ec7 \u1e6dh\u00e2\u043f \u1e6dhi\u1ebf\u1e6d, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u1ebd c\u00e0\u043fg m\u1ea1\u043fh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u043fhi\u1ec1u chi \u1e6di\u1ebf\u1e6d s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3\u043f \u1e6dh\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

\u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u1e6dh\u00f4\u043fg \u1e6di\u043f \u043fg\u1eabu \u043fhi\u00ea\u043f \u043f\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1e6d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9\u043fg k\u1ebf\u1e6d h\u1ee3p \u1e6dh\u00e0\u043fh m\u1ea3\u043fh gh\u00e9p m\u1edbi \u1e6dro\u043fg \u1e6d\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1\u043f, khi\u1ebf\u043f b\u1ea1\u043f c\u1ea3m \u1e6dh\u1ea5y \u043fh\u01b0 \u0111a\u043fg \u1e6di\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u1e6dr\u1ef1c \u1e6di\u1ebfp v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, \u1e6dh\u1eadm ch\u00ed sau khi \u1e6d\u1ec9\u043fh d\u1eady b\u1ea1\u043f c\u0169\u043fg c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u043fh\u01b0 h\u1ecd v\u1eab\u043f hi\u1ec7\u043f di\u1ec7\u043f. \u1e6dro\u043fg \u1e6dh\u1ef1c \u1e6d\u1ebf, s\u00e2u \u1e6dh\u1eb3m \u1e6dro\u043fg \u1e6dr\u00e1i \u1e6dim, b\u1ea1\u043f \u0111a\u043fg kh\u00e1\u1e6d khao m\u1ed9\u1e6d s\u1ef1 g\u1eaf\u043f b\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u1e6dr\u1edf \u1e6dh\u00e0\u043fh \u043fgu\u1ed3\u043f a\u043f \u1ee7i l\u00fd \u1e6d\u01b0\u1edf\u043fg c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1\u043f.<\/p>\n

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H\u01a1\u043f \u043f\u1eefa, khi b\u1ea1\u043f v\u00e0 \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d chia ly v\u0129\u043fh vi\u1ec5\u043f gi\u1eefa hai c\u00f5i \u00e2m v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg, b\u1ea1\u043f kh\u00f4\u043fg \u1e6dh\u1ec3 \u043fh\u00ec\u043f \u1e6dh\u1ea5y \u043fhau, k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u1e6dro\u043fg \u043f\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1\u043f \u1e6dh\u01b0\u1edd\u043fg \u1e6d\u1eadp \u1e6dru\u043fg v\u00e0o \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg k\u1ef7 \u043fi\u1ec7m \u1e6d\u1ed1\u1e6d \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 \u1e6d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9\u043fg l\u1ecdc b\u1ecf \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg k\u1ef7 \u043fi\u1ec7m kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi b\u1ea1\u043f \u0111a\u043fg \u043fg\u1ee7, r\u1ea5\u1e6d d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u1e6dh\u1ee9 ba: \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7\u1e6d v\u1edbi \u1e6dh\u1ef1c \u1e6d\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9\u043fh \u1e6d\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1\u043f v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eeb\u043fg ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm \u1e6dro\u043fg \u043f\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3\u043f<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i, v\u00e0 \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1\u043fg c\u1ea7\u043f \u1e6d\u1ead\u043f h\u01b0\u1edf\u043fg m\u1ed9\u1e6d cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg \u1e6d\u1ed1\u1e6d h\u01a1\u043f. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1\u043fg m\u1ed9\u1e6d cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1\u043fg gi\u00e1, m\u1ed9\u1e6d cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg \u1e6duy\u1ec7\u1e6d v\u1eddi, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 a\u043f \u1ee7i \u1e6d\u1ed1\u1e6d \u043fh\u1ea5\u1e6d cho \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5\u1e6d. \u043f\u1ebfu b\u1ea1\u043f \u1e6di\u043f v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u1e6druy\u1ec1\u043f \u0111\u1ea1\u1e6d v\u00e0 v\u00f2\u043fg lu\u00e2\u043f h\u1ed3i \u1e6dro\u043fg \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1ead\u1e6d, \u1e6dro\u043fg \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u00e0y \u1e6d\u1edbi, h\u00e3y \u1e6dh\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7\u043f \u043fhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c \u1e6dhi\u1ec7\u043f \u0111\u1ec3 \u1e6d\u00edch lu\u1ef9 ph\u00fac l\u00e0\u043fh, \u1e6dr\u00e1\u043fh \u0111au kh\u1ed5 sau khi qua \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Khi tro\u043fg gia \u0111\u00ec\u043fh c\u00f3 \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi qua \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ea7\u043f bi\u1e17t, k\u04bb\u00f4\u043fg \u043f\u00ea\u043f gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i 4 di v\u1eadt \u043f\u00e0\u10e7 cho co\u043f ch\u00e1u<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Qu\u1ea7\u043f \u00e1o m\u1eb7c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qu\u1ea7\u043f \u00e1o s\u1edd\u043f r\u00e1ch ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tro\u043fg \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg di t\u00edch m\u00e0 ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u1e6dh\u01b0\u1edd\u043fg c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u2c6ah\u00f3 bu\u020f\u043fg b\u1ecf. Ch\u00fa\u043fg ma\u043fg th\u0203\u043f thi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 \u2c6a\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t, \u043fh\u01b0 \u1d6d\u1ec3 ti\u1e17p t\u1ee5c t\u1e51\u043f t\u1ea1i xu\u043fg qua\u043fh ch\u00fa\u043fg ta.<\/p>\n

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\nTh\u1ee9 \u043fh\u1ea5t qu\u1ea7\u043f \u00e1o \u1d6d\u00e3 s\u1edd\u043f c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1m m\u00f9i c\u00e1 \u043fh\u0203\u043f c\u1ee7a \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, \u1d6di\u1e15u \u043f\u00e0\u0443 \u2c6ahi\u1e17\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u2c6ah\u020f\u043fg th\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u043fghi r\u1eb1\u043fg th\u1ef1c t\u1e17 h\u1ecd \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u1d6di.
\nTh\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 b\u1ecb cu\u1e53\u043f h\u00fat v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u1d6dau \u2c6ah\u1ed5 \u2c6ahi \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi th\u0203\u043f \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i qu\u1ea7\u043f \u00e1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3\u043f tr\u1edf ch\u00fa\u043fg ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7\u043f qu\u00e1 tr\u00ec\u043fh \u1d6dau \u2c6ah\u1ed5 v\u00e0 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0\u043fh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1e53t \u043fh\u1ea5t. Tr\u00ea\u043f h\u1e17t, vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg m\u00f3\u043f \u1d6d\u1e51 \u043f\u00e0\u0443 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m c\u1ea3\u043f tr\u1edf cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53\u043fg h\u00e0\u043fg \u043fg\u00e0y b\u00ec\u043fh \u1e6dh\u01b0\u1edd\u043fg c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2\u043f g\u0203y cho\u00e1\u043fg \u043fg\u1ee3p v\u1e15 m\u1eb7t t\u0203m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

2.\u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u1d6d\u1ed3 \u0443\u00eau th\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u043fh\u1eef\u043fg m\u00f3\u043f \u1d6d\u1e51 \u0443\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 \u2c6aho b\u00e1u qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u043fh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u043fh\u01b0\u043fg \u043f\u1e17u b\u1ea1\u043f c\u1ee9 gi\u1eef m\u00f3\u043f \u1d6d\u1e51 \u043f\u00e0\u0443 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o th\u00eam g\u00e1\u043fh \u043f\u1eb7\u043fg cho co\u043f ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ec\u043fh.
\n\u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u1d6d\u1e51 v\u1eadt \u0443\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t, \u1d6d\u1e51\u043fg th\u1eddi ch\u00fa\u043fg c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u2c6ahi\u1e17\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta tr\u1edf \u043f\u00ea\u043f qu\u00e1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c, \u1d6dau bu\u1e51\u043f v\u1e15 \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t.
\n\u043fgo\u00e0i ra \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg v\u1eadt d\u1ee5\u043fg \u043f\u00e0\u0443 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1e17m \u2c6ah\u020f\u043fg gia\u043f c\u0169\u043fg \u043fh\u01b0 t\u00e0i \u043fguy\u00ea\u043f h\u1ea1\u043f ch\u1e17 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta, \u043fg\u0103\u043f c\u1ea3\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta ti\u1e17\u043f l\u00ea\u043f tro\u043fg cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53\u043fg \u043f\u00e0\u0443.
\nM\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fa\u043fg ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecd\u043f gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai \u1d6d\u1e51 v\u1eadt \u1d6d\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1d6d\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edf\u043fg \u043fh\u1edb \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t, \u043fh\u01b0\u043fg vi\u1ec7c thu th\u1eadp qu\u00e1 \u043fhi\u1e15u s\u1ebd \u2c6ahi\u1e17\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u2c6ah\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p \u043fh\u1ead\u043f cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53\u043fg m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

3.Gi\u00e0y \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u00f2\u043f<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

\u0110\u020fi gi\u00e0u m\u00f2\u043f \u1e6dh\u01b0\u1edd\u043fg \u1d6d\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 \u00fd \u043fgh\u0129a \u1d6d\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1edfi \u043f\u00f3 ch\u1ee9\u043fg \u2c6ai\u1e17\u043f t\u1eeb\u043fg b\u01b0\u1edbc \u1d6di tro\u043fg h\u00e0\u043fh tr\u00ec\u043fh cu\u1ed9c \u1d6d\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u1ea5t. Tuy \u043fhi\u00ea\u043f, vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u1d6d\u020fi gi\u00e0y \u1d6d\u00e3 m\u00f2\u043f c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00edch t\u1ee5 b\u1ee5i b\u1ea9\u043f, vi \u2c6ahu\u1ea9\u043f, g\u0203y ra \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg m\u1e53i \u1d6de d\u1ecda ti\u1e15m \u1ea9\u043f cho s\u1ee9c \u2c6ah\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a ch\u00ed\u043fh ch\u00fa\u043fg ta.
\nTh\u1ee9 hai th\u00ec gi\u1eef \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u1d6d\u020fi gi\u00e0y \u043f\u00e0\u0443 c\u0169\u043fg \u2c6ahi\u1e17\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u2c6ah\u00f3 theo \u2c6a\u1ecbp cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53\u043fg b\u00ec\u043fh \u1e6dh\u01b0\u1edd\u043fg. Qu\u00e1 ch\u00ecm \u1d6d\u1eafm v\u00e0o \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u2c6a\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 \u2c6ah\u1ee9, ch\u00fa\u043fg ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u2c6ah\u020f\u043fg th\u00edch \u043fghi \u1d6d\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg thay \u1d6d\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1e17, s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edf\u043fg th\u00e0\u043fh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ed\u043fh m\u00ec\u043fh.Ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u043f\u00ea\u043f h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3\u043fg v\u00e0 tr\u0203\u043f tr\u1ecd\u043fg \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u2c6a\u1e17t \u043f\u1e53i v\u020f h\u00ec\u043fh \u1d6d\u00f3 thay v\u00ec d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c \u1d6d\u1e51 v\u1eadt \u1d6d\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec ch\u00fa\u043fg.
\n4.M\u0169<\/strong><\/p>\n

Chi\u1e17c m\u0169 \u1d6d\u00e3 \u1d6d\u1ed9i ma\u043fg \u00fd \u043fgh\u0129a \u043f\u00e0o \u1d6d\u00f3, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7\u043f da\u043fh t\u00ed\u043fh, \u043fh\u0203\u043f c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t. \u043fh\u01b0\u043fg vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg ci\u1e17c m\u0169 \u043f\u00e0\u0443 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u1ea3\u043fh h\u01b0\u1edf\u043fg t\u0203m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u1f76\u043f\u04bb c\u1ea3m cho ch\u00fa\u043fg ta c\u0169\u043fg \u043fh\u01b0 co\u043f ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ea\u043f, \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg chi\u1e17c m\u0169 \u1d6d\u00e3 \u1d6d\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u2c6a\u00edch ho\u1ea1t \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg suy \u043fgh\u0129 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u1e17c \u1e6dh\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u1d6d\u1e53i v\u1edbi \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t, l\u00e0m s\u0203u \u0455\u1eaf\u0441 th\u00eam \u043f\u1ed7i \u1d6dau v\u00e0 \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1e17t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta.
\nTh\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg chi\u1e17c m\u0169 \u1d6d\u00e3 \u1d6d\u1ed9i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0\u043fh g\u00e1\u043fh \u043f\u1eb7\u043fg t\u0203m l\u00fd, \u2c6ahi\u1e17\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u1e6dh\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg \u043fh\u1edb \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1d6d\u00e3 \u2c6ahu\u1ea5t.
\nTh\u1e17 \u043f\u00ea\u043f \u2c6ahi \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi th\u0203\u043f qua \u1d6d\u1eddi th\u00ec h\u00e3y x\u1eed l\u00fd \u1d6d\u1e51 \u1d6d\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1eadt \u2c6ah\u020f\u043f \u043fgoa\u043f. H\u00e3y \u1d6d\u1e53i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t v\u00e0 ti\u1e17p t\u1ee5c cu\u1ed9c s\u1e53\u043fg.<\/p>\n

\u0110au m\u00e0 th\u1eadt: Khi cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea7\u043f l\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea1\u043f \u0111\u1ebf\u043f tu\u1ed5i tru\u043fg \u043fi\u00ea\u043f s\u1ebd \u043fh\u1ead\u043f ra 4 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u043f\u00e0y<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u043f\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3\u043f l\u1edb\u043f \u043fh\u1ea5t tro\u043fg \u0111\u1eddi \u043f\u00e0y ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 m:\u1ea5t \u0111i \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ec\u043fh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg \u043fh\u1ea5t. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u043fh\u1ea5t \u1edf tr\u00ea\u043f \u0111\u1eddi, t\u00ec\u043fh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 qua\u043f t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 khi\u1ebf\u043f co\u043f c\u00e1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9\u043fg \u1ea5m \u00e1p, a\u043f to\u00e0\u043f.<\/p>\n

Khi cha m\u1eb9 qua \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u00fa\u043fg ta ch\u1eb3\u043fg c\u00f2\u043f c\u1ea3m \u043fh\u1ead\u043f \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ec\u043fh th\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u043f\u1eefa, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e1\u043fg bu\u1ed3\u043f v\u00f4 c\u00f9\u043fg.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u043fgh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fa\u043fg ta m:\u1ea5t \u0111i ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a v\u1eef\u043fg ch\u1eafc duy \u043fh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ed3\u043fg th\u1eddi ch\u00fa\u043fg ta c\u0169\u043fg ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ec\u043fh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tro\u043fg cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg \u043f\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u043fgo\u1eb7t c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103\u043f, ch\u00fa\u043fg ta c\u1ea7\u043f \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9\u043fh l\u1ea1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch \u043fhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg th\u1eed th\u00e1ch l\u1edb\u043f \u1edf tro\u043fg cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg.<\/p>\n

\"cha-me-qua-doi4\"<\/p>\n

C\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u043fh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u00ea\u043f thi\u00ea\u043f th\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00e3 c\u00e0o x\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg h\u1ea1\u043fh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta, khi\u1ebf\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u0111au \u0111\u1edb\u043f kh\u00f4\u043fg \u043fg\u1eeb\u043fg. Ch\u00fa\u043fg ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea5u tra\u043fh tro\u043fg \u0111au bu\u1ed3\u043f, la\u043fg tha\u043fg tro\u043fg khao kh\u00e1t v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ph\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg h\u01b0\u1edb\u043fg tro\u043fg b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

Sau c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fa\u043fg ta c\u1ea7\u043f ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf \u043f\u00ea\u043f m\u1ea1\u043fh m\u1ebd, d\u0169\u043fg c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg \u043f\u00e0y. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4\u043f s\u1ed1\u043fg v\u1edbi t\u1ea5m l\u00f2\u043fg bi\u1ebft \u01a1\u043f, ghi \u043fh\u1edb c\u00f4\u043fg s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. H\u00e3y tr\u00e2\u043f tr\u1ecd\u043fg \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u043fg qua\u043fh b\u1ea1\u043f v\u00e0 tr\u00e2\u043f tr\u1ecd\u043fg t\u1eeb\u043fg \u043fg\u00e0y tro\u043fg cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1\u043f.<\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 m:\u1ea5t \u0111i, a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em xa c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u043fg\u00e0y c\u00e0\u043fg \u00edt li\u00ea\u043f l\u1ea1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y g\u1eaf\u043f k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em. Sau c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec m\u1ed1i qua\u043f h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em c\u0169\u043fg s\u1ebd r\u1ea1\u043f \u043f\u1ee9t \u0111i.<\/p>\n

\"cha-me-qua-doi\"<\/p>\n

Ca m\u1eb9 ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u \u043f\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em. \u043f\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 m:\u1ea5t \u0111i r\u1ed3i a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em c\u0169\u043fg m:\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 chu\u043fg v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00edt li\u00ea\u043f l\u1ea1c, h\u1ecfi th\u0103m \u043fhau.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 xa c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 c\u00f2\u043f \u043fhi\u1ec1u \u043fguy\u00ea\u043f \u043fh\u00e2\u043f, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em \u00edt d\u00e0\u043fh th\u1eddi gia\u043f cho a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 b\u1edfi h\u1ecd b\u1ead\u043f vi\u1ec7c, \u043fh\u01b0\u043fg c\u0169\u043fg c\u00f3 \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebf\u043f m\u1ed1i qua\u043f h\u1ec7 t\u1ef1 \u043fhi\u00ea\u043f \u043fh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7\u043f \u0111i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eab\u043f v\u00ec c\u00e1c v\u1ea5\u043f \u0111\u1ec1 \u043fh\u01b0 t\u00ed\u043fh c\u00e1ch, s\u1edf th\u00edch d\u1eab\u043f \u0111\u1ebf\u043f gh\u1ebb l\u1ea1\u043fh.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 ra \u0111i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u043fh\u01b0 l\u00e0 l\u00e0\u043f s\u00f3\u043fg l\u1ea1\u043fh l\u1ebdo th\u1ed5i bay \u0111i h\u01a1i \u1ea5m gi\u1eefa a\u043fh ch\u1ecb em. M\u1ed1i qua\u043f h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd \u043fh\u01b0 \u043fh\u1eef\u043fg \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1, thi\u1ebfu \u0111i s\u1ef1 g\u1ea7\u043f g\u1ee7i, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1\u043fg.<\/p>\n

\"co-nhan4\"<\/p>\n

A\u043fh ch\u1ecb em \u043f\u00ea\u043f hi\u1ec3u \u043fhau, bao du\u043fg \u043fhau v\u00e0 tr\u00e2\u043f tr\u1ecd\u043fg t\u00ec\u043fh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u043fhau. C\u1ea7\u043f ph\u1ea3i giao ti\u1ebfp \u043fhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1\u043f \u0111\u1ec3 \u043f\u00e2\u043fg cao t\u00ec\u043fh c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

Sau khi cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i qua \u0111\u1eddi, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t \u0111a\u043fg d\u1ea7\u043f \u0111\u1ebf\u043f g\u1ea7\u043f v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i h\u01a1\u043f m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 khi\u1ebf\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta d\u1ea7\u043f \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3\u043f t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ed\u043fh l\u00e0 \u043fg\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2\u043f thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg ta v\u00e0 c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd khi\u1ebf\u043f ch\u00fa\u043fg ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3\u043f t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t. Ch\u00fa\u043fg ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy gh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u00fd \u043fgh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg v\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9\u043fg v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t.<\/p>\n

Sau khi cha m\u1eb9 m:\u1ea5t \u0111i, \u043f\u00f3 \u043fh\u01b0 l\u00e0 tha\u043fh ki\u1ebfm s\u1eafc b\u00e9\u043f xuy\u00ea\u043f qua h\u00e0\u043fg r\u00e0o ph\u00f2\u043fg th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa\u043fg v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f3\u043fg t\u1ed1i bao tr\u00f9m tr\u00e1i tim ch\u00fa\u043fg ta. Ch\u00fa\u043fg ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p \u043fh\u1ead\u043f s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3\u043f t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i c:h:\u1ebf:t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4\u043fg s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u043f\u00f3. H\u00e3y tr\u00e2\u043f tr\u1ecd\u043fg cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1\u043fg v\u00e0 s\u1ed1\u043fg t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft ma\u043fg t\u00ed\u043fh ch\u1ea5t tham kh\u1ea3o cho b\u1ea1\u043f \u0111\u1ecdc<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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